People often ask exactly what will I do as their doula. Below is a breakdown of exactly what I do and do not do. Please feel free to read it, and ask any questions you want to about my services.

Birth Doula:

Post Partum Doula:

As a your BIRTH DOULA I include the following:

Prenatal Visits:

1. An informational meeting between you, your partner, or any other person who will be with you during labor, and myself. At this meeting we can become acquainted, I can inform you of my background, training, and experience and you can describe your priorities, concerns fears and questions regarding your upcoming birth. This meeting does not obligate you to select me as your Doula. I encourage you to meet other doulas and to take some time before deciding whom you want.

2. Discussion of how you and your partner believe I can be most helpful to both of you.

3. Once, you have decided to go with me as you doula, we will have one-two prenatal visits to talk about the preparation of your Birth Plan/Vision, practice positions for labor, relaxation techniques such as massage, and go over the basics of breastfeeding (this is a good refresher session for those who took a breastfeeding class a few weeks prior, or for experienced moms, who might want a refresher on the basics of positioning and latch).

4. Phone contact as needed and as desired.

5. A reliable method for you to reach me.

6. I am on call for you two weeks before your due date and two weeks after your due date.

7. You will receive the names of one or more reliable back up doulas with whom you can also become acquainted. The back-up doula(s) will be available if for any reason I am not.

DURING YOUR LABOR:

8. Early labor phone contact for information and for us to decide where and when to meet. I usually need approximately one hour to get to you from the time you call.

9. I will meet you where we decide--at home, birth center, or hospital. I will stay with you from the time you want or need a Doula throughout the labor and birth of your baby.

10. I will use my knowledge and experience to provide you with physical comfort, emotional and educational support.

11. I will help your partner(s) by offering reassurances, assistance, suggestions and information, as we had previously discussed.

12. I will act as a liaison between you and the staff, if it seems appropriate or necessary—establishing rapport, reminding them of your Birth Plan and asking questions so that you have the information you need to make decisions.


DURING YOUR POST PARTUM PERIOD:

13. I will stay with you until you have completed third stage, you are comfortable, and your family seems ready for quiet time together. I will show you how to latch your baby on for his/her first breastfeeding session, if you so desire. All this usually takes approximately one to two hours.

14. I will contact you by phone to answer any questions, check on your well being, briefly review your labor and birth, and arrange to get together at a convenient time.

15. I am available to answer questions by phone.

16. I will meet with you after the birth of your baby:

    1. to review the birth experience with you, compare notes, and clarify events that took place around you;
    2. to check in on how breastfeeding is going;
    3. to admire and answer questions about your baby; and
    4. to get feedback from you about my own role.

As a Doula, I do not:

1. Perform clinical tasks, such as blood pressure, fetal heart checks, vaginal exams, and others. I am there to provide only physical comfort, emotional support, and advocacy.

2. Make decisions for you. I will help you get the information necessary to make informed decisions. I will also remind you if there is a departure from your
Birth Plan.

3. Speak to the staff on your behalf. I will discuss your concerns with you and suggest options, but you or your partner will speak on your behalf to the clinical staff.

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POST PARTUM DOULA SERVICES:

What a family needs during the postpartum period really varies widely. The idea of a postpartum doula is that she is there to ease the transition of this precious time of enjoying and meeting a new family member, while getting to know their needs and how they can be met along with the needs of the rest of your household. While I make individual agreements with my clients, this is some general information about my services.

Services
As a postpartum doula, I provide non-medical physical, emotional, and educational support, breastfeeding support and household organization after the baby’s birth. I can help with self-care adjustment measures, give information on mother and baby care, and help you to learn to care for and feed your baby. I can prepare meals, do grocery shopping, do the laundry or run other necessary errands. I can also spend time with your older children or help to care for your baby while you take a nap or have a cup of tea.

I believe in and have been trained to provide appropriate and non-judgmental support, information and practical assistance to new mothers and their families. I do not offer medical assessment or give medical advice. If I am concerned about you or your baby, or you are concerned about yourself or the baby, as your post partum doula, I do offer you literature and appropriate referral services in the geographic area and type of care you are in need of.

Philosophy
I believe what new families need most is nurture and gentle support. My goal is to support you (Mama and Partner) on an "as needs" basis so that you are well rested and able to nurture and care for your baby. I do this by focusing on the mother’s needs and helping both parents to develop confidence in their own parenting skills, whilst demonstrating techniques in newborn care and feeding, as well as emphasizing self care (as we all know it is important to care for oneself, so you can better care for those whom you love around you).

I think there are many good ways to care for babies, and I do not enforce my own parenting style or insist that you adhere to a specific school of thought with respect to your baby. I trust parents to make decisions for their babies and will help you get the information you need to make wise choices.

Families with a new baby are particularly vulnerable, and it is always my goal to be helpful in a quiet, pleasant, appropriate and unobtrusive way. I am respectful of the traditions, culture and values of my clients.

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